I lost my husband 9 weeks ago he was the love of my life a half of me, we had been together since we was 17. So together for 39 years.
To say 2023 has been a rough year is an understatement I lost my mum 4th May and my husband was diagnosed with Matatasis Oesophagus cancer which had spread to his liver on the 5th June.
He died at home in my arms on 4th October.
I could never have imagined how hard loosing him would be and everyday is worse.
@Sue1966 Hi Sue, I am so sorry for your loss, I too lost my mum last Christmas Eve and my husband this September after a undiagnosed liver cancer, he was admitted to hospital and died 7 days later. It is devastating and heartbreaking and I feel for you and can offer my sympathy this is an incredibly hard time for us all on this site. People here will understand your grief, please keep reading and posting here it has certainly helped me to process my feelings. Sending love and hugs to you take care of yourself x
Yes sending you love too. My parents died many years ago so when I lost my husband last year I still feel devastated and struggling and reminds me of not having others as well.
@Sue1966 what a sad time it is for you . Too lose two special family is so much , my hugs to you
@Sue1966
So sorry for your loss. Like me its early days. I lost my husband in Seprember 10 days from diagnosis to him passing. I am devastated. As people say you need to be kind to yourself and just focus on each day. I find morning worse. Been awakw since 5. Must have been dreaming about Steve, because when I woke up I remembered he’d gone and it now feels like I have lost him again. Sorry for the long reply. Xx