Hi, just want to write something here. My husband died suddenly next to me in bed two years ago. I’ve been trying to keep going but just this year I have rheumatoid arthritis and lung disease. On top of that I found out yesterday that Im losing my job. Im 65 and feeling overwhelmed. I don’t want to bother my family but I’m worrying about a dismal future.
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Hello Debz, im so sorry for the loss of your husband, and so sorry for what you are going through, its bad enough grieving for our loved ones and to then to worry about our own health, its just too much. Are you able to collect retirement?? Or a pension from your spouse.?. I hope that you are able to. When my husband passed away, I had no more income, he was the provider, I took care of him. My son moved back in with me to help me out. I can’t collect anything from my husbands social security until im 60, 2 more years. I pray that you have good doctors, that will provide you with excellent care. I will be praying for you 
take care and May God bless you, sending you a big hug 
