I really believe in spirituality i had a reading from a guy all he kew was my moble number i messaged him to book he was absolutely amazing , he told me things he even said my husband’s name etc i now go to my local spiritual church i find it a comfort , ive also met few knew friends whos lost loved onestoo ,
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I’ve been meaning to get hold of that book, heard very good things about it, prehaps I’ll order it later 
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Amazing and wonderful your love was strong
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My parents were spiritualists, so I’ve seen a lot of mediums in action, without actually consulting them, if you see what I mean. Some are frauds, no question - the kind of person who’d ask a room if anyone knew a lady with a name beginning with ‘M’ (because most of us do!), and who generally ask a lot of questions before offering any ‘message’. Some were genuine but patchy, like a poorly tuned radio. And some were very definitely the real deal.
Several of these gave me messages when my mum died, and I had a lot of signs, too. Really powerful ones, and personal, with it, things they couldn’t have known or guessed. But I still spent hours (and hours!) fretting that I might be kidding myself.
I think it’s like when we’re young and first realise we ‘like’ someone and desperately want them to like us back - the way we go over everything they said, trying to make sense of them. When we seem to hear from our loved ones, we so want it to be true that we half convince ourselves it can’t be. But it sounds to me as if you know in your heart that it was.
I think it’s quite usual for the signs and visits to tail off a bit after a while. It’s not that they’ve stopped thinking of us. It’s more like stepping back to allow us to move forwards a little. Like holding a child’s hand to help them go to school, then just walking beside them, then just watching them set off on their own. And it doesn’t mean the hand wasn’t held at the start, if you see what I mean.
Hope this helps.
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I went to my local spiritualist church on Saturday, was an open circle, I was chosen twice to give a message to but wasn’t my other half, so I was crying when I left thinking why wasn’t it him, some of the messages I got I don’t believe we’re for me, they were very vague and could of been for anyone, like I’ve got someone who was a heavy smoker, everyone was back in the day, said about coal miners and army connections, again something that was rife back in the day especially the north east coal miners, so I was disappointed, I was so desperate for them to say my mick was with me!! Perhaps I was expecting too much 
I think I need a one to one with a recommendation of an amazing medium/clairvoyant, I will get one eventually 
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Yes, I think a sitting with somebody who’s known to be good is the better idea. An open circle is a training session, really, and many people who try to develop as mediums aren’t any good at all.
I do hope you find what you’re looking for. The important thing to remember is the love you shared, which hasn’t gone away and never will.
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I currently go to a development circle and it’s weird how it works and I can see it being a long road to be half as good as the top mediums! I can’t even make sentences I just say what I’m seeing in my mind.
I did ask the leader whether my Mum was stlll around because I don’t feel her anymore and she told me she will be but will be taking a step back to allow me time to get my head straight.
I struggle to understand how leaving me to it helps though because if I don’t get anything I start worrying it was all in my head or that she’s left me or none of it was real it’s like I need the constant reassurance.
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@Jess1 i came away from that open circle really upset and one of my friends told me off saying it’s done me no good whatsoever, I just so desperately wanted them to say his name and that he was there with me!! I think I’m expecting far too much, I’ve been so upset thinking things like well why wasn’t he there? Doesn’t he care? Why isn’t he trying to tell me he’s with me? I just miss
Him do so much!!!
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I only started going circle once I so the first medium as I was curious about it. I have rarely got any messages from my Mum in group and I have to admit I always walk away upset but I realise that they are learning and it can be a long progress.
Before I so the first medium I was attending the local spiritualist church and I found that my heart broke each time I didn’t get anything.
It broke me that much I decided to do a lot of research on the best mediums so I could have a one to one and I am so glad I did. We became friends after my reading and I had lots of questions for her and that’s when she suggested I go to a circle to learn all about it.
I have been going for a few months now and I still really struggle to get solid messages, I just see images in my mind and explain what I see and I’m always confused until someone understands completely and it blows my mind!
Your best bet would be to find someone with good reviews and don’t give anything away. I didn’t add my medium on fb till after my reading and so many things were said that she shouldn’t have known!
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