Hi loosing my mum was horrific time , my sister was POA and mum was dying at home , she had any Tom dick or Harry sitting with my mum day n nite ! She changed locks on my mums house so I could no longer go visit without appt , everytime I visited I was met with aggression an verbal abuse , same for my daughter . I was in contact with hospice regularly and was not even told of my mums decline nearing death . I recieved phone call from a nephew that my mum had passed ! My sister had deliberately denied me being with my mum at the end of her life , 
most distressing thing in my life ! My poor mum once bed ridden for 3mths befor passing was completely controlled by sister and her minions, my mum could no longer stand up to her 
my heart broken even befor she passed. Sister had ashes returned to her there was no funeral and ashes were scattered without me also . Grief has been unbearable and nothing can ever change what happened . POA should be vetted in some way as my mum was manipulated even nephew was executor of mums will. 14mths on and my pain still raw .
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I’m so sorry, @Rosalee. That sounds incredibly traumatic for you. I can hear how raw your pain is.
I’m just giving this a gentle bump for you so that you can get support.
Take care
Seaneen
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Thanku
Hi @Rosalee
I’m so sorry you have lost your mum. I can hear how much you loved her. It sounds like you have had an awful time. Everyone here has been through losing someone they love and there is a lot of kindness here. I hope you find it helps 
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