Hi I lost my mum aug 7th… and struggling…
She had a fall 3 yes ago which ended up in hospital with delerium. Then covid hit so she ended up in a care home.
We moved her to what we thought was a suitable new home but after a few month realised she was being neglected… all was reported to the authorities after several falls ( un witnessed). Any way she deteriorated. Sorry she had dementia/Alzheimer’s… so we moved her again and the knock on effect of neglect ect. She just dealt further .
Hello @Lindie ,
I can see that you’re new to the community, so I wanted to say that I am so sorry for the loss of your mum that brings you here.
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I wanted to share a few Sue Ryder resources with you that may help right now.
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Our Grief Guide self-help platform which has information, resources and advice to help you through your grief
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Our Grief Coach text service, which sends you personalised text support via SMS
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Our free Online Bereavement Counselling which is held via video chat
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Our Bereavement Information pages which can walk you through what you are going through
Thank you again for sharing – please keep reaching out and know that you are not alone.
Take care,
Alex
So sorry for your loss, my mum died 3 weeks ago she was happy in a home for 9 years then the council closed it down, i had a week to find her an alternitive, it was in covid so couldnt veiw it, she was ther 10 weeks ended up in in a pychatric hospital she didnt het her meds on the new home, she was in hospital a year. Got covid, neurovirus, kept falling, had ECT, left there nursing EMI, went to another home and ladted 5 months died of sepsis, i blame myself, im feel terrible for it all, cant eat or sleep proper, so full of guilt, i dont know how to move on x