My beautiful son lost his life

Received the post mortem results today. Inconclusive. So this means that they are taking his brain :broken_heart: and we are looking at a year wait for the results :broken_heart:
I long so much to be with him :broken_heart:

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Oh dear, it’s not what you wanted to hear. It was the same after my son’s post mortem. They took his brain and heart for further tests. A person from the coroners office phoned us to tell us this and asked what we wanted done with the body parts afterwards. I found her so unsympathetic. I know it’s just a job to them, but they are dealing with bereaved people. Were you actually told a year for the results then? I don’t understand why it takes so long.

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Yes they said it can take up to a year.

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My Sons funeral is on Thursday. I have decided I am going to visit him tomorrow. I need to do this. Tell him how much I miss him and how much I love him :broken_heart: I’m going to sit with him and chat to him :broken_heart:
I wish this was a nightmare I’m going to wake up from.
Life can change in a split second. Life is so precious and delicate.
My beautiful boy I hope to see him again one day :heart:

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I hope it gives you a little consolation. I now wish I had gone to see my son at the funeral parlour, but I was not brave enough.

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I visited my son, it was something I had to do.
I hated it but I don’t regret it.

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I hope it gives you some comfort. I visited my daughter while at the funeral home . It was tough but I’m glad I went. All the best

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I wanted to visit him but the funeral director wouldn’t let me . I so wish I had been able to .xx

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I went to see my beautiful boy. I sat and held his hand. Felt so good to see and actually feel him. I chatted to him. Told him how much we are missing him. And we are all utterly devastated :broken_heart:
Lots of tears and kisses on his forehead. I’m so glad went to say goodbye :broken_heart:

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I am so glad it went well for you.

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Today we say farewell to my boy :broken_heart:

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I am so sorry. I hope it goes as well as can be expected. Xx :broken_heart:

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