My beloved

Losing a partner
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It has been 2 years and 4 months since my beloved passed :cry: :broken_heart: I still miss him more than ever he was always there for me when I came home from work I miss him so so much :cry: :broken_heart: he was the light of my life. I know he is here in spirit I speak to him all the time. I really miss my beloved so much :sob::sob::sob:

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Dear Duk

I am sorry your post hasn’t been seen, I’m also sorry you too have lost your beloved. I’m not sure the feeling of loss will ever leave any of us. I lost my wonderful husband 10 months ago and miss him terribly.

When I first joined I read through old posts, there are some very kind helpful people here who have shared their ways of coping.

Please keep posting, I’m sure someone will be along with words of support or advice. Everyone here understands, we are all just trying to find a way of coping without our loved ones x

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Hi Duk, I always called my Norm the light of my life. I do believe our beloveds are still with us in spirit, I chat to Norman all the time, telling him I can`t wait till we are together again in eternity. One day we will all be reunited. Wishing you some peace.
Helen

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So sorry for your loss and your pain. I think some people find moving forward more difficult than others. I expect to be one of those people. My partner died suddenly seven and a half months ago. I have a lot of guilt as I wasn’t there for him. I don’t feel any better now, the aftermath has been a nightmare. I don’t ever see myself having any joy or happiness in my life again. I function from day to day, and do the basic minimum to keep the house clean but I’m motivated to do little else.

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Im with you on that, Norma. I have terrible guilt about not being with Norm when he died, I could have gone with him in the ambulance but the paramedic seemed certain he would be home the next day so I stayed for Puss Puss. It doesnt matter how many times people say ignore hindsight, it`s impossible, it creeps into you every day. Hope you find some peace this afternoon. x

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Thank you very much.

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I know what you mean… I talk to my most beloved husband all the time, but sometimes it’s so overwhelming that I’m only looking at him without a word… A few days ago I felt his presence in the kitchen at night again, he was standing next to me and it felt like a strong and warm hug… I know that he is watching over me and my friends think the same… He knows what I’ve been going through and it’s the worst nightmare of all…
Janka

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2 years and 4 months for me, too. Grief changes, it doesn’t stay the same, it twists and turns, goes forward and backward, side ways, all over. I would say this process is one of the hardest, the hardest, I’ve ever been through. And, I’ve been through some doozies.

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