On June 5th this year it will be 7 years since my beautiful 27 year old princess was murdered by her abusive, controlling, coercive, narcissistic, bullying, coward of an ex partner. He had abused her for 10 years and within that time my daughter had phoned the police countless number of times but when officers turned up their opinion was it was all just false threats by her ex till 5 days before he murdered her she rang the police again to tell them he had threatened to put her head on a stick. It took 3 days for the police to attend her property but again said it was just false threats. They did a DASH assesment there and then, as they shoud do, but it was incorrectly filled in and not fully completed. They put her as a low risk. At 2.05am on June 5th my 80 year old dad got a call from my late daughters ex, he told my dad he had murdered his granddaughter but let the front door unlocked, my dad immediately rang me to go up then he rang the police who told him they had recieved a call too from him. It took me 10 minutes to get dressed and up to my daughters and was there before the police. I found my daughter in bed, covered in blood and unresponsive. I later discovered she had been stabbed 9 times while asleep as she had no defensive wounds and some of her wounds were so deep and aggresive he had broken several of her ribs. He had then killed himself in her garage. To this day, nearly 7 years on from my beautiful princesses unnecessary, viloent and cowardly murder HIS family still taunt me, smerk at me, troll me and blame my daughter for their brother and sons death. I found out at the inquest, which took nearly 6 years to complete, he had a history of abuse to women. His only family told everyone that he had died in a car crash so were defending him and his actions. No time can heal my wounds and the loss of my daughter but if i can help anyone who has lost a child just by talking to them i will. Whoever reads this i thank you from the bottom of my heart and if you want to read more in to her tragic and unnesessary death you are more than welcome to google her name Regan Tierney. God bless to you
Hi @DaveT69
I’m so sorry to read you have been through all this. I can’t imagine how you feel. I hope at least that you can find support by using the forum. Take care 
Hi Dave, so sorry to hear about your daughter. I just don’t understand how some men do these things to women, it’s like hurting children it is just so evil.
I hope you find some peace knowing your daughter will be with God in heaven her suffering has come to an end.
Wishing you all the best
Tom
Thank you Brandon for your kind and heart warming words. I agree why do some men do these evil things. Yes she is at peace now and with her late mum, brother and grandad.
I am so sorry for your loss too, i know yours was only last year but i hope you are doing ok
This is absolutely shocking, especially with the amount of people who get killed by domestic violence. I don’t think you would ever, ever get over this. I lost my daughter last year and I’m finding it very difficult but I just keep trying to live everyday and try and remember the good times. I will never get over this.
Hi Yvonne. Thank you so much for your message but can i say how sorry i am for your loss too. We never expect our children to go before us. Always here if you ever feel the need for a chat or just to have a rant or vent your anger at your loss x