My mum

Hi again i have already been on here at losing my mum on 26th September 2023 this is going to be my first Christmas without my mum and this week i am finding it very hard missing my mum so much xx

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Hi @Wendy12 I can only empathise as I am in the same situation. Christmas is so nostalgic anyway and only made worse when you’re grieving. I hope you’re able to find some consolation somehow, remember not to put yourself under pressure with expectations. Sending best wishes xx

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Me too Wendy. It’s just horrible and the build up to Christmas is worse.
I am having such a quiet Christmas. Hardly doing anything. Just enough to get through the day. It will pass like everything else passes. Nothing will be the same again. We just have to try to keep occupied throughout the day and protect ourselves from anything that may trigger us. For me it will be TV carol services so I am not going to put the TV on at all.
Thinking of you
Deborah x

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Thank you and hope the same for your too

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