My troubled parents

my parents haven’t contacted me since burying my grandma and all of a sudden two missed calls from my dad who changed his whatsapp photo to that of him and his mum and not message me since October 2024 i have no reason to call back he got all he wanted my mum. My resentment towards them has mounted since last year nothing received by them for christmas, no happy new year messages no happy easter messages that is why I do not want to phone my dad back tonight if i have not been important all this time, then why should i do what he asks ?

also previous horrid messages from my mum making up lies that i am pregnant, how i have been gossiping about them to her cousins who live in altrincham not too far from me which are also untrue.

Hi @SWEETWOMAN234,

I’m sorry you’re having difficulties with your family after the loss of your grandma. I can’t give any advice but I hope it helps a bit to write it down.

is there anyone here who can give me advice my instincts tell me not to retuurn his calls or messages as over christmas i had no well wishes and no money or anything and the time gone by has left a sour taste in my mouth.