I’m still having a really shit time I have to care for my mum and can’t stop feeling guilty about making my bro walk to shop to get beers I was buying them for him everyday but then said u gotta do it as I work all day anyway I was coming home from work at about 5 and I saw him walking to shop and I didn’t give him a lift as I didn’t realise how bad he was feeling this was about 3 weeks before he died I just feel evil.i thought if he had to walk its at step to normal life.also what signs do luved ones leave as I don’t know wot to look for luv Jo xxxx
Hi, I feel that I have read your post before and if that’s right then hello again. It’s hard to get over things such as you have witness and perhaps now is the time to ask for professional help from a trained counsellor. Cruse or Sue Ryder offer free sessions or your GP may be able to help. It’s just me thinking aloud but I hope it helps. Take care and please don’t beat yourself up for things that you can’t change. S xx
-https://www.cruse.org.uk/
-https://www.sueryder.org/online-bereavement-counselling
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Thanks u luv Jo xxxx