So this evening I am on my own, all I do is cry! Why did you leave me? What did I do wrong? Please come home !! Give me a sign your here xxx I miss you so very much
Yep - 8 months and still do this
Youβre not alone, MrsT1. I bet there are a lot of us doing exactly the same right now. I would love a sign too, but so far nothing.
Nothing I say will ease your pain. I just wanted to say you are not alone.
Ann x
Dear MrsT1,
I was making a toasted sandwich tonight (again) and I sat down in the living room to wait for it to be ready. I was thinking about the sadness of my situation and I started to cry. Within seconds I was bawling my eyes out, and I asked exactly the same questions as you (and not for the first time), and begged to be back with my wife. Weβve done nothing wrong, but it doesnβt stop us from thinking we have and wondering if we could have done something more or better. Iβm not very religious, but perhaps itβs all part of a greater plan that weβre not meant to understand, I donβt know. I realise it may be of little comfort, but please know that you are not alone in having those thoughts and feelings about yourself and your beloved husband. I hope better days are ahead for you.