How do you cope with other people? Particularly couples enjoying life when your life feels like it has ended and the future seems so bleak.
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Hello @Blooms ,
I’m so sorry for the loss of your partner. Thank you for sharing this with us. I’m just giving your thread a gentle, “bump” for you - hopefully someone will have some thoughts to share.
Take good care,
Alex
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Ignore them ! Just concentrate on yourself and getting through this rotten period in your life … it will get better bit by bit but takes time not gonna lie xxx
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I find it very difficult seeing couples. I lost my husband suddenly 5 months ago. He went to work one day and didnt come home. Seeing couples holding hands, laughing together hurts so much. I miss him all the time, it feels life has stopped for me
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I know exactly what you mean. So painful isn’t it ? All of this is so painful - how we get through it i have no idea but just have to keep in being kind to ourselves i guess xx
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When my friends are a having a tiff or a huff with their spouses I initially want to shout at them to stop but I know that this is real life and I even miss the squabbles!
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Yeh i know makes you angry doesn’t it ? I wish i had my husband here even to have a tiff with 
xx
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