My mum passed away 27 months ago, and my sister is absolutely devastated. She still has night terrors, sleep paralysis, her mental health is deteriorating, she simply cannot get over her passing. I don’t know what I can do for her, as my support only goes so far as we live apart and I have found my own personal way of coping, but we are both very different people.
I did suggest to try a forum or two (not this one, as have just found it), but they were absolutely no help what so ever and didn’t even acknowledge her, and she’s crying out for someone to listen to her, but no one would give her any time. This is the reason I’m here now. She doesn’t know I am doing this, but if I could get a sense that someone here would be willing to listen to her and maybe give her the support I cannot, I would be forever grateful!
Please, I really don’t know what else I can do to help her through this. I have tried everything I can think of to help. Anybody willing to spare some time just to listen to her or share experiences with her on how you found a way to cope, it would mean the absolute world to me.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, and I look forward to hearing from some of you.