Recently bereaved

I lost my mum 2 years ago and lost my dad 6 weeks ago but only buried him 2 weeks ago. I’m struggling at the moment, my feelings are all over the place. I wasn’t close to my mum, she cut me out of her life and brothers life 40 years ago, so meeting and having contact with my brother at the nursing home and the funeral was daunting and I’m still struggling with it, any advice would be welcome!

Hi Sarah, I’m really sorry about your losses, it’s early days, your mind is all over the place, take a day at a time and don’t be hard on yourself, I can’t tell you what to do, go with your heart, sending love Jude xx

Thank you for your reply, I’m just plodding on, trying not to over think things, taking one day at a time. I’m still trying to process everything and meeting my brother for the first time in 40 years, it’s mind boggling!