Im soo sorry about yor beautiful girl can I ask what happened (you don’t need to share if its difficult) It definitely dies help ti talk about our daughters and sometimes it makes it worse but thats okay too . Theres no right or wrong and every day will be different xx
Hi
Yes her name is Elizabeth-Ann and was 31yrs old. She passed away from SUDEP. She was Epileptic from age if 10yrs old. She had a rough time with her Epilepsy but she just got on with it. She moved to her own disability flat 3yrs ago. She loved her independence but knew I was there for her when she needed me.
Thankyou for asking about Elizabeth it means alot
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Hi Sharon, I don’t think I will ever be the same. I know I won’t. Im so tired of people telling me what I should do!!! No one gets it unless they have been in our shoes! 
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You’re so right ,no one gets it unless its happened to them .Sadly there so many of us whi do actually “get it” but this is a safe space to say exactly how you fel with judgement
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You talk about your daughter as much or as little as tmyou want ,we will always understand what youre feeling and have maybe have had the same feelings / thoughts x
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Thankyou so much you don’t know how much that means. I could talk about Elizabeth 24hrs a day. My family are in the same mind as my friends move on….
My parents have disowned me after Elizabeth passed away because the cpr i did didn’t save her but the paramedics tried aswell. So I’m on my own in it all.
Just wish I could give Elizabeth a big mummy hug 
and talk with her.
Like ive said before this is a club that nobody wishes to be apart of. We are now Angel Mummy’s.
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Its been nearly 3 yrs since my beautiful Jade was tcaken and I could still talk about her all day . But I feel most people don’t want to hear it but if we candle talk about the people that are still here why cant we talk about the ones that aren’t here. That must have been horrific giving your daughter COR ,I cant imagine .No one has the right ti blame anyone, that must be adding greatly to your grief . When our children are taken we all feel guilty enough ,no matter what the circumstances so we beat ourselves up ,definitely dont need anyone else adding to that …..thats awful xx
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Morning
Im sat here with my brew looking at Elizabeth’s picture. Wednesday is a tough day cos it’s the day of the week that my beautiful Elizabeth died.
My family have definitely shown their true colours in how ive been treated. Yes I feel guilty for not being able to save her but I wasn’t alone in trying.
Its a very lonely place im in at the moment. Ive started to go to the Spiritual church (used to go with Elizabeth) and I feel calmer when im there. My husband and son don’t like me going but its my choice.
How is everything on here feeling today.
We all need to be kind to ourselves and grieve in which ever way we want to.
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Hi
Im here if you need or want to talk about your daughter Jade. What was she like if you don’t mind me asking.
People don’t understand what us Agel mums are dealing with daily without our beloved children.
My Elizabeth would ring me or facetime me about 30+times a day. Sometimes just saying Thankyou mum I love you. All I want is to hear those words again. Xx
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Jade was 26 ,she died of cancer after fighting it for 11yrs . We would also phone/text each other multiple times a day ,she was my best friend and my hero
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