Relationships

Someone said to me that “grief changes you as a person”. Mum, Dad and my Sister have all died in the last 18 months. We (my brother and I) are finally at the point where we can sell the house. Getting things sorted for this has been just awful; he lives @ 2 hours away and works so a lot of the “house” stuff has landed on me, whilst he thankfully is dealing with the monetary issues.
I feel like my relationship with my husband has taken a hammering. He has hardly been down to help with things and this has been commented on by friends and family. He’s a loving, kind man but at times I’ve not felt much empathy. I can feel resentment building up but to be honest feel totally overwhelmed with coping with my grief, let alone addressing this.
Am I expecting too much?

Hi @Daphne6,

Thank you so much for sharing this with the community :blue_heart: I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support, but I just wanted to let you know that you have been heard and you are not alone.

Take good care,
Alex

Youve had a lot of loss …
Its really stressful when u are dealing with your parents affairs as well their loss.
Maybe he thinks you are coping better than you are ?
I can come across like im coping when im not xx