Shock

Losing a child
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I’m just trying to connect with any other mom who’s lost a child

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they are on here. I am sure they will reach out soon. :heart:

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We are here Kathy. There are too many of us. My 24 yr old healthy son passed away in his sleep 8 weeks ago. They think Sudden Adult Death Syndrome. To me it doesn’t matter what the cause was , he’s still not here. :sob:

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I’m so sorry, I drive myself crazy with all the why’s.the normality of life drives me crazy. I’ve had councilling. It has helped, a bit but more so for making me see how different it is for my husband and daughter. They still hate me crying and talking about him, my councillor explained that they can’t cope with me because it makes them have to cope with their grief that they can’t. It’s very lonely. Luckily I have a friend who I’ve known since we was 5, she has been my rock. Sometimes friends can be easier to talk to.

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Kathy
Don’t be scared to talk about your son. I talk about my son all day every day and I’ll do so until I die. If other people don’t like it or can’t cope with it, that’s their problem. Don’t forget we are all in the same boat here and you can talk to us.

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Hi kathy sorry your on this rollercoaster .your all in shock .the truth is i do feel its a lonely road sams been gone 4 years he would be 29 now cruel is not the worfd .no one talks i want to shout his name from the roof tops .come on here talk theres a stream lost son at 37 .lots mums on there with lost children .xxx

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Im here. Lost my son 7 weeks ago.