I lost my brother last October, and its coming up to the date when he was found passed away. We had no explanation as to why he passed away as he was found in a ‘too far gone state’ and he was 'just unlucky he was only 30, like myself and I just cannot bear each day. I’ve not really even spoken about it until now and could really do with some support from people who get it as I cannot find any groups near me. I just can’t cope with it anymore
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Hi I’ve recently lost my brother he was 32 from cancer. Its more of a shock when you’re talking one minute and the next minute they’re not here. It feels surreal that someone we grew up with that was still so young isn’t here anymore, its hard to comprehend and uts hard to relate to people that have lost a grandparent or friend. I get how you’re feeling and I’m on here a lot lately, as I don’t really talk to my family , if you want to talk. I dont know how I’m going to cope. His funeral is tmrw . sending love and strength xx
Oh Maria, that’s awful, no matter what circumstances its awful and it’s nice to have someone to relate. I’m not sure if it’s coping is it, it’s just getting from one day to the next, I just try my hardest to cling on to the good memories that we had, I do hope his 'send off’is what he deserved.
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I recently lost my brother to cancer too. He was 31. I also lost my mum to cancer 11 years ago but this feels so different. I just burst in to tears at the most random things. Not sure this pain will ever go away 
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It literally feels like part of out body has been ripped off. Its a year on and the year has gone quick. I feel lost and not me anymore. Sending lots of hugs xxx
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Ten days after our mums funeral at 88 years old end of June my brother was diagnosed as terminal with possibly 6 weeks left. Turned out he had 18 days. Terrible shock for all. Two funerals in two months, unbearable 
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Sending hugs. So sorry you have to go through that!
They also gave my brother 6 mths when in fact he deteriorated the day the docs told us and within 3 days he passed
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