I’m no good at expressing things gently and I promise you this isn’t meant to hurt anyone, but I have to type it before I forget; to those looking for and wanting signs from their loved ones, what kinda signs are you wanting to receive? You’ve gotta remember that sending big signs like feathers and coins and music and things like that is like asking your loved one to go disco dancing immediately after sprinting a marathon - it’s just not possible, especially if they are newly departed.
I’ve got screenshots of over 250 signs from Steve and I know now that his sign for me is time signs like 12.21pm or 1.23pm or 4.56am or whatever. He’s never sent me a feather or a coin or a song or anything like that because they just take too much energy from his spirit to produce them, but the time signs are the equivalent of sprinting for the last bus home… exhausting, but doable, sometimes a few times a day.
I don’t get signs every day, but I do get loads of them because I know what to look for now and say thank you to Steve for every sign he sends me.
I agree with you LostScaredAlone. I get signs from my wife, who I lost in December 2024.
I first noticed them when I was planning her funeral which I was dreading.
I had to choose a poem to be read during the service. Poetry isn’t one of my strong points, so I turned to Google. ‘Death Is Nothing At All’ by Henry Scott-Holland filled the screen. Well OK, it’s a very famous poem and likely Google hit, but it was perfect and very comforting. I’m sure you are familiar with it but definitely worth reading if you aren’t.
Next was the music for the service. I woke up one morning with a song buzzing around in my head which I couldn’t place, so I Googled the chorus. It turned out to be a ballad by her favourite artist and it was absolutely perfect. Next morning the same thing happened with a different song by the same artist, again perfect for the service. Needless to say the funeral was perfect and I felt she was with me every step of the way.
I’ve noticed that after a particularly black day when I go to bed her favourite perfume fills the room. It’s only fleeting, if I go out of the room and come back it’s gone, but it’s definitely there and very reassuring.
Recently a review of a book in an online newspaper became difficult to ignore. It was Angels Are With You Now by Kyle Gray which I found very interesting. I hadn’t really thought much about Angels before reading it, but I do now.
Signs are very subtle and can easily be dismissed as coincidence but they bring me comfort and reassurance.
Hi Rjay
I don’t really believe in coincidence. I have had a number of signs from my wife, Jacquie, who died on January 6th this year. I think you just have to keep your mind and heart open, and try and be more receptive about what is happening around you.
I firmly believe that i will see her again when it’s my time to go, and belive she is looking after me.
Too many things happen to be a coincidence.
I agree Jrthorn. You just have to be aware and open minded to the possibilities. I talk to my late wife all the time and she gives me a lot of help.
It’s all down to what you believe I suppose.
These things seem to happen when we’re least expecting them. but they do seem to be intermittent. Hold fast & let it happen round you appears to be the pattern.
Yes, you can’t demand a sign, just be open to when they happen.
I talk to my wife all the time too, but don’t stress myself out if i don’t get an immediate sign.
You are all so right… I got another sign at 3.21pm today so I’m up to 278 signs now that I’ve got proof of and that increases to about 300 for the things I don’t have proof of.
Don’t give up, just don’t expect to find feathers and coins when you look for them. Your loved one is with you, they just haven’t found the right, subtle, way to contact you yet is all.
The signs are there, just be open to recieve them. I believe that we come from spirit and return to spirit, so just remain open. I have had a number of signs, things that never happened before.
I believe she is still with me and i am comforted by that.