I am 50, grieving the loss of my dad. I was excluded from his passing my step family.
I was not informed till Christmas day by my step brother on messenger.
The message said merry christmas, by the way your dads dead. (There was a follow up message… it was a laughing face.) This man was not a bio son of my dad.
His mum was my dads 3rd wife.
I am his only bio child and from his first marriage.
I feel so lost in my grief. I need help x
My dad died in september 24, so it was a premediated message to cause me emotional harm.
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So sorry for your loss and the unnecessary pain the exclusion must be causing you. There are no words of from me unfortunately but know there are many people here going through our own grief journeys and I hope you can feel that you are not alone
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Sheffgirl, that was a shitty thing to do to you. Mean people are so useless. They had to work hard to conspire to keep you in the dark about your father’s death.
I don’t know where you live, but it seems that in the UK you are a forced heir. They may be trying to pull a fast one and exclude you from your portion of his estate. Perhaps an attorney is necessary.
I would be hopping mad on top of grieving. They are shameful people. Doing this on Christmas day is reprehensible. It was intended to hurt you and ruin your holiday. Why?
They all need a throat punch.
My husband died on that day too.
Much love.
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Thank you for you kindness…