Still struggling 2 and a half months later

My mother died almost 2 and a half months ago. Sometimes it feels like yesterday. Sometimes it feels like a lifetime ago. Time seems to have lost all meaning. I’m really struggling to believe that she’s actually gone. Missing her so much.

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I suppose it’s the horrible reality of the situation kicking in. It’s horrid…

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Hope you’re ok too, under the horrid circumstances.

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I’m the same. My Dad does 6 months ago, my Mum 10 weeks ago.
Time has lost any sense and I waken up at night wondering what’s happening and trying to make sense of it all.

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I think you are all being too harsh on yourselves, two and a half months, six months, one year. That isn’t really all that long, I am struggling loosing my dad five years ago, and I think I still will be in another five years.

I lost my partner a month ago, I don’t even think it’s really sunk in that he is gone yet. So don’t beat yourselves up.

Take care everyone, xx

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Thanks JohnnyBadger, it really does help to hear others perspective on loss.
I’m sorry about your partner. Take care .

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I’m so sorry to read of your losses. I can only imagine how hard it must be. The only thing keeping me going is KNOWING that my mother would want me to.

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So sorry to hear of your losses. Must be so hard.

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Seaside23, you are right, my parents would want me to keep going, I’ve never thought of it like that.
Thank you for a glimmer of hope. I need to keep going, for my parents, for all they taught me and do all their love.

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