Explain that picture a bit … ??? Xx im dumb with these things … ha x
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@Deb5 the mud piles are where the fence posts have been removed 
Someone took A Fence - get it ! xxx
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@Ladysuisei6 that’s the nature of snowflakery 
But I hear you - my partner’s daughter let her down badly as well, when she needed her and that upset her terribly at a time she needed support 
No I don’t get it - I would never abandon my folks if ,God forbid, this happened to one of them
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@MemoriesOfUs well I think it’s a generation thing . The younger people today see us parents as disposable. Whereas we have different values xxx
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No i would never abandon mine either … awful isnt it ! They have no conscience and there are people who obviously tell them its ok and its really not … having one of those crap days today where life feels so bloody pointless 
not just cos of my kids but just cos life is so crap without our partner isnt it ? x
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@Seaneen hello - has this thread broken the guidelines? I don’t understand. Please will you explain.
Thank you x
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@MemoriesOfUs and @Deb5 yes you are right my post was taken down due to using a derogatory term . Sorry! xxx
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Just cos you generalised thats all … need to just say it from a personal point of view … then you will be ok or you can private message if you feel it is delicate you know ? xx
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xxx You’re stirring now debs
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Lol … joking !! Xx
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Youre a really kind , helpful man to us all on here … so thanks and i mean that … gotta have a bit of banter to make life bearable havent we ? After we all been through ? x
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Aww thanks Debs 
You help me a lot too.
No there’s nothing wrong with a bit of banter - life’s pretty miserable these days
But you’re still stirring when you know I’m on thin ice 
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@Deb5 my sister and her husband been here for dad’s birthday. I was telling her how awful I’m currently feeling. Life is so bleak and I literally don’t go anywhere at the moment. I hope my son does let me back into their lives xxx
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Thsts nice they came to visit and yeh its hard isnt it and some days seem so much worse than others dont they dunno why ? Guess it catches up with you ? xxx
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