I am really struggling with the loss of my mum. I want to scream so loud because my brain cannot understand how she is no longer here and there is nothing I can do to fix this. I cannot understand how her life can be over so soon when there is so much we have to do. She had pancreatic cancer diagnosed a year ago so i thought i would be more prepared but now its here I simply can’t understand it and i can’t cope with it. The sense of loss feels too overwhelming.
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My mum also had pancreatic cancer. She died 4 week’s ago and i am similar i cannot process that she isn’t here anymore.
I am struggling myself so don’t know what to say apart from take it one day at a time. Your mum knew you loved her and she would hate you being unhappy. Try and think of the good times and smile, she will always be with you
I’m so sorry for your loss.
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I also just lost my lovely mum. But although been completely heartbroken I get strength from how much she loved me and I her. We’ll all be OK because of them
Its been 6 weeks and 2 days since we said our goodbyes and I spent most of today crying. I simply am just not coping at all. I am trying to work. Trying to look after the kids and then bang, it hits me and I feel sick to my stomach and heartbroken all at the same time. Ive never ever gone more than a week without talking to her and that was rare. So i’m wondering when will this get better. Weve had the funeral, and I thought that goodbye would help like it did my Grandma but it hasn’t at all.
Hi Lizzie I totally understand your feelings it is overwhelming and no matter what diagnosis is given or how much time there is to prepare it hits just as hard no matter what I lost my mum 12 years ago and it’s just as hard now as it was back then