My husband died suddenly 7 months ago. The grief just is overwhelming.


Dear Starman

I fully understand having lost my husband in a road traffic accident 10 months ago. I wish I could say that it gets better but for me personally it is not. As the first anniversary approaches each day just brings more tears and heartache. I so desperately need my husband, even if it were only for one last goodbye, to tell him how much I love him and ask him to wait for me.

Take care as best you can on this unwanted journey.


I have read some of your posts and I understand how horrendous it is when you can’t say good bye and it’s so sudden. It was for me - my husband was 50 and collapsed and died, we don’t know why. I have two children 20 and 23. I am so sad for them but also feel cheated of the time that we should have had together as a couple now they are getting older. My life is empty without his love in it. Sending hugs

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