@Cee I’ve put all the oddities in plastic container, that no one will understand why I’m keeping - catheter contents, her last 5fu chemo pump, unwashed nightie she died in - to be revisited on those days when you don’t want to remember because of the heartache, but have to, to hold on to her
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Yes its important to keep what we want to keep. Im gonna do what a lady suggested at some point and get a lovely box to keep all his little things in ! I just really bad at facing up to it all tbh… very hard to accept hes not even here for a start off … my bereavment counsellor said you do what you want , when you want and when youre ready x
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Yeah me too - the items in the box are things I needed to preserve, like nightie I sealed to preserve the scent along with pillow slip.
Everything else in the house - clothes, shoes, bathroom, perfumes etc is exactly as it was.
No where near ready to even consider moving or packing things away. Can’t see that far at moment
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