This is the Place

My wife’s ashes are being interred next Wednesday, 30th April 2025, in the Church where we got married in 1967.

I wrote a little poem for either one of my granddaughters or the vicar to read out at the service.

Every bit of it is true, just with a little artistic licence

This is the Place

This is the place where I first fell in love with Jackie,
When the world was wide and the days were long.
She smiled, Miss Rogerstone, in 1965
And handed me Smarties, the sweetest prize of all,
While the band played on in the old church hall.

This is the place where she stood so still,
At the back of the hall, with her reel-to-reel
Saturday, October, '66 winds blowing through,
Her eyes on the music, her heart full of truth.
The tape spun gently, like the days we knew.

This is the place where we pledged our lives,
In September’s sun, as husband and wife.
The bells rang out, the choir sang clear,
Every word a promise, every step sincere.
We danced into forever from right here.

This is the place where she now rests deep,
Where the yew trees sigh and the willows weep.
Beneath this earth, so soft, so kind,
She waits with peace, and love still shines.
This is her silence, her soul’s design.

This is the place where I’ll one day lie,
Beneath the same sky, where larks still fly.
Until that time, I walk our lane,
Each step a memory, joy and pain
And whisper her name in the morning rain.

I love you, Jackie. Always and forever.
This is the place where we began.
And this is the place we will meet again.

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Just picked up her ashes which was very emotional. :cry:

They have to be taken to Wales for her internment next week, so she is spending some time with me.

The wicker basket is a mini version of her coffin.

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Your poem is absolutely beautiful. I read it then read it again. It has really touched me. I hope all goes as well as it can for you next Wednesday . I have my husbands ashes ,all I know is that he wanted them scattered. He told me this when he scattered his mum’s ashes just over a year ago. We didn’t get any further than that though, as his death was so soon and unexpected. Also one of my sons lives abroad so we need to wait until he is back in the UK. Best wishes to you for Wednesday xx

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Thanks. Tried going out tonight with some friends to play guitar and sing. I’ve been playing over 65 years and yet messed up my own songs. I had to come back home early as I left her on her own.

Now sobbing in bed :cry::smiling_face_with_tear:

All the best with your ashes

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I am very sorry for your loss. I to have R’s ashes at home. The plan is for them to be scattered on the mountain near my home in Wales. It has been months now and I am not ready to part with him yet.

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@Mbg
Mountains are why I want to come back home to :wales: It’s flat where I live in Northants.

Hopefully I can move to somewhere near where her ashes will be in Rogerstone.

All the best to you

I live about 10 miles from there.

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@Mbg is the mountain Twmbarlwm or one of those up the valleys?

My wife’s family were from Rogerstone, whereas I’m from Newport

Such a beautiful poem, full of love and admiration xx

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I am up the valley John. 40 years ago I would go up Twmbarlwm and listen to bands play.

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@Mbg In my youth, we used to go up Twmbarlwm at Easter weekends and roll Easter eggs down the hill. This was before they built the steps and path, which I believe they have now.

Talking about bands, I played in a Newport band called the Pieces of Mind. Probably you were too young, but we played throughout the Valleys 63-67, We reformed in 2013 and played again until our last gig at the Potters in Newport, back in April 2024.

You look after yourself

This demo I did of one of my songs was filmed in the garden of the house we had in Rogerstone.

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Well that’s another first for me.

Crying my eyes out while ironing a white shirt for my wife’s internment of her ashes on Wednesday. :cry:

I was going to leave it not ironed but my son and his wife shouted at me when I FaceTimed them😄

I wasn’t really lazy, it’s just that my wife had a gigantic ironing board that she always had to show me how to set it up and she’s not here. :disappointed_relieved::disappointed_relieved::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart::broken_heart:

Get a steamer, they are so much easier.
I hope all goes okay on Wednesday.
Sending love xx

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Can I ask what’s a steamer?

Thanks as well. Not looking forward to it​:cry::disappointed_relieved:

Yes, I worked/work sometimes, now, in a boutique. We steam clothes ready for sale.
You can get free standing steamers, you fill it with water, and you steam the clothes.
Google clothes steamer, much easier than ironing. xx

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It will be a sad day :heart:

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Looks interesting. Might get one when I move, mind I rarely iron anything these days.

It will, but like most here, every day is a sad day. :disappointed_relieved: