Coming up to 5 years January since I lost my daughter Elle and 4 years loosing my mum how have I got to hear I’ll never know. I miss them so much elle was my world. I hate this time of year. It gets me down I have to fight the demons. My mum was my rock.
Elle would of been 18 in Jan every year at this time I become unwell physically and mentally.sending big hugs to everyone who is in pain
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I am so sorry for the loss of your daughter and Mum. They say time is a healer but I don’t believe it. I lost my son in March 2023 aged 35 to accidental drugs overdose, broken beyond words. This time of year is hard, especially when you get Christmas rammed down your throat constantly. I am avoiding it as much as possible, just not interested it’s too hard to cope with. We have to do what we think is right for us and no one else. In one way I’m strong enough to not get wrapped up everything, even my so called best friend as she is a hypochondriac and too negative for me at the moment. If it ruins a friendship too bad. I feel a better person for not getting dragged into her problems, it may sound selfish but since losing my son I e changed and come to the conclusion if people don’t like how I am tough luck.
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Sending you hugs and love. From another mum who lost her son In March . 
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Same day as my son passed away xx
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