Trying to cope

I don’t know how to start.
My lost soul mate saved me from a violent marriage in 1987
He asked no questions but gave me shelter. I left the home I owned to escape. Not long after we bonded for the next 36 years
I am sitting here crying
I loved him so much

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Sorry to here of your loss.

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Sorry pressed send button.
I understand your pain losing someone you loved and was a friend and solemate.
You can one take 1 hr 1day at a time.
It has been over 3 months since i lost my husband of 35 years it eould have been 36 on 28th August so i had to go through that anniversary alone. It was not good 1st time dint think anytime will be good just need to remember our best memories and time together.
Please take time to look after yourself and help you are given from family and friends.
I dont have family here but a couple of friends have been phoning me on a weekly basis. It helps but the restbofvthe week us filled with tears and being upset. Hoping but not convinced it will get better. Take care Lynne x

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Sorry you have joined this club. It is 3 months for me. I too am crying today but I do have the occasional day when I hardly cry. We just have to survive and I choose to hope that I will follow those posts who have found a way to get through this and rebuild our lives. Take all the support you are offered. Xx. Sandra

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So very sorry you have had to join this group. Not one of us wants to be here. We all understand how you feel. We are all in the same position sadly.

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