i have a lovely boyfriend…who has been absolutely supportive, kind and generous the whole time i have been preoccupied with my Dad’s ilness and now his death. this has been ongoing since June 2016
lately he has become rather distant and said that I’ve changed…more snappy and “not as bubbley as I used to be…” were his exact words
we had a slight falling out over misunderstood text messages (easy enough to do) and when i tried to explain to him as to why i had that sense of humour malfunction that day and why i was not my usual diplomatic articulate witty self was because “my dad had died” and i notice that i’ve been saying this a lot…to explain myself to a lot of people especially my boyfriend when i’m upset, or in a bad mood, or crying uncontrollably or have a bad neck, cant’ sleep…had vertigo…got a headache…eating far too much…etc etc etc
he and i had a heart to heart chat about this last night and he said i have been taking it out on him…this really upsets me !
i don’t know how to deal with this…