Tonight I went to see a “Mediumship Show”. Due to an outbreak of covid, there were only 17 of us there, and the medium said she would be able to do everyone. It wasn’t quite what I expected, as she singled people out of the meagre audience to tell them stuff from a spirit who knew them.
I waited for her to get to me. She never did. I was one of the few who wasn’t contacted by someone.
I went with a friend who is a bit psychic herself and she said that Trev, my husband, was there, but that he didn’t want to speak. She said she saw her father and told him to go away. She said that she has seen my husband in the pub with me, and that he is always with me. Why don’t I know this? There are no signs.
My friend’s view is that it is too soon, that he was taken before he was ready, and very quickly, and that for me, six months is not long enough. I don’t know if she was just being kind, but I really wish I had had the chance for him to speak to me.
At the end of the evening, we talked to the medium, and she does private readings. The thing is, do I contact her and have one? Or do I take my friend’s advice, and wait a while until my husband and I are ready to communicate.
He was the love of my life and I find it hard to face each day, knowing he is not there any more. We were soulmates and loved each other since we were 17 years old. He recently passed after we had been together 45 years, and I cannot let him go. I don’t sleep. Toast or eggs seem the best things to eat unless I’m in the pub, and I drink too much. I really don’t see the point of it all, and wonder if I would feel a little easier if I could just talk to him one more time. Shall I contact the medium? I don’t know. I know we all share this awful grief on this site, and appreciate more than I can say the support I’ve had from you all, but I just don’t know what to do now.
I would like to hear others views on this, which may or may not influence me. But I know I’m weak because I want to do it. I’m just not sure how much I believe.