Way forward

Will I feel like this forever, because right now it feels like it.

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Hello @Nathall,

I’m Seaneen, and I can see you’re new to the community. I hope you find it to be a support to you, but I’m so sorry for the loss that brings you here.

There is no timeline for how long grief lasts, or how you should feel after a particular time. You might find our guide called, “How long does grief last?” helpful to read.

Hopefully someone will be along to share their thoughts, but I just wanted to let you know you have been heard, and you are not alone.

I’m sorry to hear your loss. How long ago?

I’m so sorry for your loss. How long ago did you lose your loved one?

You will find your emotions and feelings will change all the time. There is no right / wrong way to grieve. My Dad died 22-07-2015 , I feel worse now than ever. I still cannot accept it and I know part of me died when dad did. At times the grief feels unbearable/ like you’re in sooo much pain but nothing will help . I know life goes on, I know he’d want us/me to live. Truth is I’m lost, and merely existing. You will also find that you get days where you can do anything and listen to their song without being a mess. Your not alone.

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