Why do people ask me for his things?

4 weeks without my husband and struggling to understand why people keep asking me for his things!!! In 2 weeks I will have to get on a plane with his ashes and I want to leave everything in our holiday home where he left them. I know he won’t need them but they are his!!!


Do everything in your own time, however long that takes, and don’t let anyone pressure you.
4 weeks is far too early for anyone to be even thinking of asking for anything


Grief is a process of coming to terms with what has happened. Don’t be pushed into anything by anyone.

This process takes as long as it takes. Baby steps, one day at a time. He was your husband. It was your life with him. Everything is now in your hands. Take your time and do things as and when you’re ready.

Sending hugs :hugs: