Wife passing away

Even though it’s been 2 years in April i still find it hard to conect with orher women. It feels as if i am cheating on her. I also find it hard to conect with people around me. Find it hard to sleep on a night with only having 2 to 3 hours sleep.


To me that says you truly, deeply loved her. Take your time. It will happen when the time is right. I lost my hubby in Nov 23 and i have already been asked if I’m ready for a relationship. The answer was and is no. I think people think you shouldn’t be on your own.
Take care of you. Don’t push things. Let it happen naturally.


Sorry for your loss people say it gets easier but when it comes to important dates in the year its still hard to cope with. I know there’s someone out there for me and i hope in time you will find some. But like me after 30yrs of marriage its very hard to sleep on a night and some days hard to get out of bed.

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I was with my hubby for 18 yrs. On my birthday in July we would have been celebrating 19 yrs together if he was here. Then the day after my birthday we would have been celebrating our 12th wedding anniversary.
Not looking forward to those dates.
I’m just so tired all the time. I keep hearing him, pushing me to get through the day.
I must admit I’m looking forward to the time when it’s not so painful. But, one day at a time

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