Difficulty supporting partner during grief, feel blame

[Seaneen]

Hello @hellogoodbye1,

Thank you for reaching out. Supporting someone through grief can be so hard so please try to be gentle with yourself.

You might want to take a look at this thread in which people share similar experiences to yours:

My partner broke up with me after her moms death.

Hi ya’ll. I’ve been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years. We’ve had a great relationship. Of course we’ve had our fair shares up ups and downs, but thats with any relationship. We both always told each other we’d marry each other. Her mom was also on board with it. Fast forward 3 months ago, her mom passed away. I was with her through out everything. The light inside my girl has disappeared. Her mom and her were very close. 3 months later she decided to break up with me because she wants to be …

Take good care and keep reaching out,
Seaneen