They say time heals all wounds. It doesn’t. It just patches a broken heart.
It doesn’t get any easier over time, we just have to learn to live with the pain.
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Its nice 2 think we will be together again. 
I dont think it gets any easier, theres always a reminder some where.
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Thank you for sharing. 
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So very true , its an ever ending life of torture 
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15 months on the 26th February., I lost the love of my life .
Theres another sing song called ‘HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO
LIVE WITHOUT YOU’
I really dont think I am living , i’m just existing , this is not how life should be .
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That song was going around in my head the other day … bless … i always put songs to how i feel at the time … it really helps doesnt it ? 14 months for me … so tough isnt it ? Im probably better than at beginning but still its hard … Xx
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That what i say its not a life,
just an existence.
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Yes, just going through the motions … That’s how it feels, and worse nothing to plan for or look forward too
Love, hugs and strength to you all
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Thats what happens when we lose the love of our life,
we end up so lost.
& it takes a long time 2 adjust.
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Hi everyone,
@Alone1 thanks for sharing this song, it’s such a beautiful song, can’t listen without crying 
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Another good song is Turbulence by Bowling for soup, we played this one at my mom’s funeral.
@Deb5 I usually play music that matches how I’m feeling at the time to, I guess it’s sorted of comforting to know I’m not alone, that other people feel the same sometimes.
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Yeh thats true. Guess the person who wrote the song felt like that when they wrote it xx
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So very tough , I just miss him so much 50 yrs together .
How do I start a new life without doing everything without him by my side , I cant . Love to us all having to travel this long lonely hard road
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Hi everyone,
I’ve found another song which I feel sums up how things are feeling right now, Carrie Underwood singing “Jesus, take the wheel”, I personally am not religious, but it speaks volumes, in the chorus when she sings,
“Jesus take the wheel,
take it from my hands,
'cause I can’t do this on my own,
I’m letting go, so give me one more chance,
To save me from this road I’m on,”
I feel so alone, like I wanna give up, it seems just when I start to feel like I’m ok, something always seems to come up & stress my out again, I miss mom & wish she was here to give me a big hug & tell me it’ll be ok. I’ve just totally had enough. 
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Aw … its so hard without our mums isnt it. Lost my mum in september 2024 and i leaned on her so much after i lost my husband nearly 2 years before. However i have met a lovely man and he has been my rock since then. Dunno what i could’ve done without him tbh … so i hope there is light at the end of the tunnel for you too one way or another. Sending hugs xx
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U enjoy Yr happiness why be alone & sad. X
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Thank you 
xx