And a very warm hello to you Alan, unfortunately my teenagers do not want me to draw them into any form of conversation concerning or relating to Balbir, not listening and today for example they asked me to stop that and move on, I cannot do that as I tried to express my feelings about her to them.
I feel like being left out someone looking in on the outside, affecting my health.
I’ve do all chores revolving around the house and they refuse to help me in any way, pacifically told me ???, I wonder if someone is influencing them, constantly receiving txt messages from members of my late wife’s friend and family,
Seems to be dillema, attitudes have changed and a wall of silence has been built in front of me.
Don’t know how to manage the situation, don’t respect me as a dad or the fact that I’m now responsible for them, perhaps it just a lack of communication or some form of conveying our circumstances.
Alan I thank you and least I have a newfound friend.
You’re a gentleman sir.
Seems I’m having to deal with the demons in my own household, just getting harder, harder each week.
Lost lot of weight and feel depressed and I wish my life was lost instead of my wife’s, would have perhaps coped better and had the children’s respect.