16 weeks today you were taking away from us and our world has fallen 
our poor son is struggling and i don’t know how to fix him i hate Sunday and it’s raining and makes me feel worse 
hope your all doing OK as can be big hugs 
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Its five weeks today for me losing my partner and still feeling empty but have battled forward sorted his house out ready for the landlord to rent it back out, sorted all his clothes out and donted loads. Proud of myself to be fair. Got the ashes back, not to sure what to do with them yet but i have time to sort that. I know when its all done and quiet i will crash ans burn but for now i keep going
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Cazzab15 first few weeks is busy sorting out everything and then it hits you and i still have my husband clothes and everything and don’t have the heart to get rid of them yet. But we are all different i guess 
big hugs
I am 14 weeks. I still have all his clothes plus his man cave to clear out. I will do it when I’m ready. I like paperwork and form filling so I kept myself busy with that for the first few weeks, now most of that is completed I have started sorting out cupboards, rather than deal with things that were directly his! I think they call that “diversion” in counselling. Still my house is now sparkling clean and I now have confirmation of who made all the mess ( and who ate all the bananas and blamed me!)