This afternoon I lit this candle for my darling husband Paul.
It is 100 weeks.
It seems impossible but it has been a hundred weeks with a huge hole in my life.
Nothing and no one will ever fill that immense void.
You are my husband, I am forever your wife and you will always be the person who made me happy, safe and whole.
I love you Paul 
xx
This afternoon I lit this candle for other much missed loved ones.
Please view it as lit for the dearly loved ones you miss and mourn.
This afternoon I lit this candle for those struggling and facing worries and challenges in life.
Please view it as lit for you, your family, friends, acquaintances and colleague.
Thank you so much I really needed this today x
I am sorry you are having a difficult day.
I hope this brought some comfort x
Thank you @RoseGarden
This is much appreciated
Thank you as always RoseGarden. I hope you are ok.
The scent is Rose.
Thank you.
I hope it gives you some comfort
Hope you too can have some comfort
How beautiful that you lit a candle for your husband. My husband was called Paul. It’s only 23 weeks since he died. I really feel for you. I can only think in weeks too. Take care of yourself. I feel part of me is missing now.
Mine was Mike. They are missed. Peace
I am so sorry for your loss.
I tend to be in the moment.
It is whatever gets you through.
Sending a big hug
Wishing you peace as well
Thank you very much. I have lots of friends and find if I go out it helps me. I also go out with my husbands friends as when we went out sometimes I was the only female. I don’t drink a lot. Some of them unfortunately seem to think I am available. I just can’t believe it. I have found this very upsetting but luckily the genuine ones have helped me. Has anyone else had this problem. I am very upset when I get home and in bed at night. It’s terrible. I am burying my husbands ashes shortly and I will not be inviting these friends. Has anyone else had this problem. It’s bad enough losing your best friend and love of your life without this
Yes. Here in the US we call it a Nurse and a Purse. And unfortunately some think that is a legitimate move. Take care of yourself in every way and I remain unhappy any widow would have to experience this.
