Its nearly been a year since loaing my mum and it still feels like yesterday ,
Since losing mum ive struggled daily to gwt over the no morning text /calls etc and the biggest one was our before bedtime calls , my daughter has taken everything in her stride as shes so young and only wants to talk about good memories , so i grief for us both meaning i dont sleep well , dont eat well , constantly feel unwell etc conviced i have something wrong with me im wondering if anyone else has been through similar and or has any siggestions
I’m so sorry to hear about your mum. It sounds as though things are very difficult at the moment. I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support.
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Hiya @Crochetmum9
I’m so sorry you have lost your mum. Its so so hard and any thoughts or feelings you, or anyone else has are, so im told, absolutely normal.
It’s only been 7 months since I lost my mam and today has nearly broken me, we have nearly finished clearing the house.
Sorry I can’t really give you any meaningful advise, but just say you’re not alone in this awful situation we all find ourselves in on this site. Feel free to message anytime
Wishing you well on this road xx
Yes I felt something was wrong with me too. Grief feels like you are ill. And does cause it too often. Scary being alone. Not sure suggestions I just struggled on one foot at a time. Made a fuss and was hard as we all grieving. Used to think my late husband would say You can do
it.
It’s been a year since my mum was killed. The person has not even went to trial yet. I want to hurt them so much. I’m not in a good place right now. I’m annoyed with ppl saying you get it over it. I won’t