4 months

This morning I realised what the date is today.

I don’t know why this thought occurred as I don’t usually bother about what the date is.

Today is 4 months, by date, since my husband died.

It was very sudden and totally unexpected.

He was in the car. I was sat beside him.

I miss him so very, very much.

Like many of you, it was him and me.
We were together for nearly 50 years.

My life is so empty and lacking in purpose now.

Rose :rose: xx

7 Likes

Thinking of you today, @RoseGarden. Such a shock followed by disbelief and all this aftermath. Take it easy today. Sending a hug :people_hugging: x

2 Likes

Thank you so much xx

1 Like

Dear Rose

I didn’t realise.

Thinking of you and sending love and many hugs x x

1 Like

Dear Rose

Thinking of you today. Every day is difficult and even more so today. Sending lots of love :heart: xx

2 Likes

Dear RoseGarden,
Thinking of you on the 4month mark.
It is so hard and we are all feeling yr pain and empathise with you , as we generally have those same unrelenting emotions of utter sadness.
Lots of love xx

2 Likes

Thank you so much.

To think of me when suffering yourself is so kind.

It means a great deal.

Love and hugs,

Rose xx

2 Likes

Thank you .

Your love and understanding means so much to me.

Love and hugs,
Rose.xx

3 Likes

Thank you.

The date popped into my head out of nowhere.

Your support is truly appreciated.

Love and hugs,

Rose xx

3 Likes

@RoseGarden I am so sorry it is so early for you . The shock must be still present. I am in the sudden loss group too . I hope you have support. I can always be here x

2 Likes

Rose it’s hard when you’ve been together a long time. Like me you probably don’t really remember life before husband. Take care of yourself and thinking of you x

3 Likes

Thank you so much.

I know you understand.

You are so kind.

I appreciate your kindness.

Love,

Rose xx

1 Like

Thank you so much.

Life before him was a very, very small part of my life.

To think of me at a difficult time for you is so kind.

Love and hugs,

Rose xx

1 Like

Hello everyone,

I want to say a big thank you to all of you who have reacted and responded to my post about it being 4 months since my lovely husband left this world so suddenly and I suspect almost instantly.

I know you understand all the devastating aspects and experiences of grief and bereavement.

Like you, I would not wish this on anyone. However, when someone who has/is experiencing it supports, understands and is there for you it means so much.

I feel that I have made good friends on here. Friends I have never meet face to face yet share a very strong bond.

Thank you being my friend.
Thank you for sharing yourself with me.
Thank you for allowing me to share with you.

I so wish I had that magic wand that would mean we could wake up from our terrible nightmares and go back to our precious ‘normal’ lives.

As always, sending you enormous hugs and much, much love.

Rose :heart::heart::heart: xxx

8 Likes

Lovely post Rose. Let’s all try and help each other

4 Likes

Thinking of you and sending hugs.

4 Likes

Thank you.

Sending a big to you,

Rose xx

3 Likes

Love as always Rose and thank you for your beautiful words. xx

3 Likes

Beautiful words Rose xx

2 Likes

@RoseGarden oh thank you my friend and right back to you . Indeed I wish one day I would wake up and it was a bad dream . Instead it’s one long painful nightmare . It’s good to vent on here with others who are suffering too . Again my love to you xx

3 Likes