Lost my son 5 years ago, it truly doesn’t feel like 5 years .I’m still crying so much some days are worse then others .I cry at night as Iie in bed when I think about the last night I saw him “that night” so much i miss about him so much i wanna say to him …
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Hi Lesley, welcome to the site, there are many people on here who are in the same situation as you, and hopefully they will be able to give you some comfort, I’m really sorry about the death of your child, I can only imagine how horrendous it must be, sending love Jude xxx
Thank you kindly for you lovely message x
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Hi Lesley so sorry to hear about your son losing a child is something we cannot prepare ourselves for When I want to speak to my daughter who died in Jan I find it helps to keep a journal and I write all the things I want to tell her.Such as how her children are doing and just general chit chat.I think we grieve forever for our children we just learn to live alongside it.Hope you get some peacexx
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I’m sorry very sorry to read you sadly lost your daughter I feel your pain and heartache losing a child …I to have wrote journals for four of the five years since my son.passsed then I stopped and wrote in my diary…just so difficult to put into words when all i want to do is see his face and talk to him that way x
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Yes I agree it’s the yearning and longing that’s sometimes so hard to bare .We lose part of ourselves when we lose our children.
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We do absolutely we do …have you been on this site long ? Are you finding it helpful to you in your grief? Hope you don’t mind me asking x
I joined this site about 4 months ago.I find you get lots of support there are some very wise people who are at different stages in their journey.The saddest part is that there are more and more joining As someone said on here its a club nobody wants to join.Do look around other topics on here .you can vent your feelings and nobody will judge.
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