My Dad passed away 18th December last year and i feel so broken, i cant sleep alot, i cant cry, my appetite is minimal, i was so strong through the past few years, being the rock for my dad, as my sister was mentally abusing him, and very controlling with both my parents. My mum has dementia and heart failure and is bed to chair bound. If my dad would offer advice my sister would shut him down,sometimes being very nasty, shouting at him, telling him she could see why hes other daughter from another marriage didnt want to know him. I really am struggling, since my dad passed i cant cry, i light a candle every day, and miss him so much. I am due a bereavement assessment next week as i have mental health problems too. I tried so hard to be there for my dad and my mum but my sister caused so much conflict and we would argue all the time. She always thinks shes right and wont take opinions. At the moment i have found out that she has taken my mum out of the house in a wheelchair but my mum is so frail and tired alot. Cant keep her head up , cant sit up alone. She has a wheelchair to support her but this was given late last year and i feel my mums decline in health and body itis not wise to take her out in it. I camt even visit my mum as i am feeling my sister is the cause of my dads admissions to hospital,and subsequently causing his passing. I feel real anger and beginning to feel hatred for her,for what she done and now does to my poor mum. I just cant get these feelings of being lost and broken. Thank you for reading
Sending you gentle thoughts today, @Kimmy69. Iām just giving your thread a gentle bump, too - hopefully someone will be along to offer their support 
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