Wether we lost a pearent or a partner, we have a lifetime of memories to live with. I read on here in other post that our lives feel over now, and there’s a lot of sense in that train of thought. It’s hard to shut out those memories and they keep popping in my head. I have a really good memory and I can remember back to my childhood. It’s who we are, and it Devine us as individuals. It’s hard being a orphan which is what we are now if we lost a pearent. A orphan with a lifetime of memories. I don’t know where I go now even after I lost my mum 21st August 2023. I wish I could weave some magic spell like in the Disney films and heal everyone today, but sadly I can’t! That would be the perfect solution to all our lives at the moment. Wave the tears away and replace them with a smile and hope and happiness!
Yes I felt an orphan when both my parents died thirty years ago now I feel worse as a widow. At least then I had my husband but at least have my children and grandchildren I keep losing people I know.
Cat is getting old.
Neighbours widows.