Hi i would just like to tell every woman out there how important your invitation for a smear test really is.
My partner battled for 3yrs with stage 4 cervical cancer.
She was only 42years old when she passed on 5th may 2022.
Our relationship lasted 22yrs and how i wish we had another 22yrs ontop of that.
It wasnt to be and i never ever expected to care for my younger partner ,by 9yrs.
I have never witnessed an illness so cruel and so degrading to a beautiful strong young lady as i have with cervical cancer.
To have a duty built up from love and pure praise for my darling partner ,i had to clean her most private areas making it degrading for her but necessary to stop infection.
My partner had a permanent cathata in place which was a massive problem due to blocking with solids making its way through with unnatural circumstances.
As a caring partner i have seen ,bair witness to horrible upsetting episodes throughout her 3yr battle and i would never like to see any woman go through this awful situation.
It can be avoided if women take there smear test seriously atleast it can be found early in most cases.
I would like to leave a couple of images as an example .the invite letter was dated 21st August 2019…the hospital diagrams were dated 1st October 2019.
Please look after your selves and think of the loved ones who go through this also.
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Hi @Dorafrench,
I’m sure someone will be along to offer their support/share their thoughts, but I just wanted to say thank you for so bravely sharing this with us. Keep reaching out,
Alex
I have to have one evey year
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