It is coming up to a year since losing my mum. I am re living it all so vividly and am struggling. Every time I look at the clock I am right back there living the worst time over and over again. I wish I could go to sleep and wake up when it’s all over but I know the harsh reality is it will never be over. Any suggestions that may help? My mum is my everything, I miss her so very much.
It was a year Dec 7th when I had the terrible news and then 4 days for my mum to finish with palliative care. So I know what you are feeling. I also feel like I’m adrift and so very sad still. Hope you are ok
Thank you. I am so sorry that you are going through this too. One day at a time is all we can do x
My first love (mum) passed away nearly 10 months ago. I miss her so much,my heart is broken. I can’t listen to songs,look at photos, videos ect ect without crying . I want my mum back but i know its not going to happen, it hurts so much.I’m never going to get over it. Only thing that gives me peace is knowing my mum isn’t suffering anymore.
I agree, thankful that the pain and suffering is now at ease. I am sorry that you too are experiencing such loss. Life is cruel x
Sharon I lost my mum in dec 23 so I know how you feel and yes they are your first love and the biggest relationship ever I think. I just think talking like this to others helps as people who haven’t gone through it disappear or don’t know how to act around u x
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So sorry for your loss. I do find it helps on here. To see that others feel the
same or similar is reassuring when in my day to day life it feels like people around me just don’t get it x
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I completely understand how you’re feeling. It’s nearly a year since I lost my mum. I still can’t stop crying. I miss her so much it hurts. I feel exhausted and can’t get motivated. It’s unbearable. She was the person I always turned to. The light has literally gone out of my life. There is no one who can replace your mum.
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Sorry for your loss Lulu , sending you hugs . Its never easy to talk about your mum without bursting into tears. I try to hide them from my family but sometimes its just impossible. Then i get upset when they try to comfort me,it makes me worse . Rather just be left alone to cry until i can pull myself together. Its hard for my family,they just want to help.
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Im so sorry for your loss Brooke. Its a lonely world to be in without your mum. Life will never be the same . I’m feel lost,empty inside,everyday is like the day before. I miss my mums cuddles,her smile,the chats we had,the laughter,the songs we sang together…tut crying again…see its so upsetting and your right some people don’t get it,i agree with you x
Thank u lovelies this has been the worst year in my life I miss everything about my mum even arguing which as we were so similar happened often but mostly her laugh she had a wicked sense of humour x