In may 2023 i lost the love of my life she was only 39 i find it really hard to cope without her being here people say to me you are doing an amazing job but inside i am completely broken i miss everything about her she is my world i don’t know how to live without her being here
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I understand just how you feel .I lost my soulmate one month ago today .She is the love of my life .she was only 52.People are saying the same to me as 5hey are to you But inside I just want to die to be with her again .Sorry my post is not very positive for you, but sometimes it helps to know there are others out there feeling the same pain from losing a loved one .
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It is really helpful to have someone else who is going through the same process as me
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We are all going through this. I am 8 weeks in. I am so lonely. Plus it is another miserable sunday
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Yes It’s good to talk to people who understand.councillors are good but unless they have gone through this I don’t know how they can be a help to us who are living this nightmare day in and day out .
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Know how you feel I’m 22 wks David was 58 not just the love of my life he was my life it’s so difficult without him , people say I’m doing amazing but know I’m not only thing we can do is go with it easier said than done I know take care all
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I am trying to go out socially Tuesday. I just hope I cope. All my support network are pleased. They have not pushed but feel I must for my mental health. I know they are right.
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Yes try to go out if you can if it’s only for distraction for a little whilev
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You are strong @Pudding and will enjoy going out on Tuesday. Plus, afterwards will feel great with your achievement. The first time I went out, it wasn’t easy and I nearly didn’t go but, I did, and was ok.
xx
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So very sorry for your loss ,I know how hard the early days are ,
Lost my husband 9 months ago and I don’t know how I have survived this far without him ,
I do go for walks and try to meet up with a friend once a week but life is hard without our loved ones,
Take care of yourself
Sue
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My thoughts exactly about counsellors Terry44!
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And here I am bawling again. When will it ever stop? I have an assessment for counselling Friday.
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I have tried to make sure I wont bottle out as I have booked the community bus to pick me up
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Neighbour just been in for a chat. She puts my bins out for me on a Sunday. Also I have a green bin for garden waste. It is never full as I have a small easy maintenance garden. Hers is full and she has a lot still to get rid of so I have told her to take it and fill it when she needs it. Other neighbours do the same. My green bin is a community resource. The least I can do for all they do for me.
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My lovely neighbour just brought me some bread in as I mentioned I was a bit short having made a mistake in my online ordering. They really do look after me
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My partner was unwell the week before she was bringing up all of her food and her medication on the Sunday night she asked me to come into the bathroom. She then said to me im sorry i love you babes im sorry I love you on the 15th of May i woke up and she told me that she hasn’t been able to sleep i said to her that I am going to make a cup of coffee and asked if she wanted one she said yes please i said are you coming into the lounge in a bit and she said yes. She was sat up drinking lemonade at the time then All of a sudden i couldn’t here her i just thought that she had taken a napp i was not until I saw her laying laying on her back and tried to wake her up then i noticed that she had sadly passed away between 10am and 11am
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You are about a month further on than myself. My husband died in hospital 6th June.
My partner passed away on the 15th of May 2023 between 10am and 11am there is an inquest into her death because she was so you as she was only 39 she would have been 40 this October
My husband died 2 dies before his 71 birthday so at least no inquest
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I lost my wife end nov 2022 Patricia we were supposed to celebrate our diamond wedding in may 2022 but she was diagnosed with Pancreatic cancer they couldn’t do anything for her only they tried chemo that made more il by time they’d done all the tests it had spread 1 percent thats all they gave her 6 months thats all she lived I miss her every minute 24 7 I cry every day .I know you al feel the same as I do I’m lost without her I’d known her since we were teenagers I find it very difficult to cope