I have just lost my wife after 63 years married strong text
9 days is no time at all and so sorry you are going through this. Keep reaching out on here as we do understand. Nothing will feel ok just now. Take each hour, day, as it comes. 63 years is a long time together, it’s going to feel very painful and unreal right now.
I can’t imagine what that must be like for you after so many years together. Reach out to others. Thinking of you