Not sure if I’m doing the right thing here… Has anyone heard from Ade? She’s suddenly gone quiet and I’m worried - I can’t find any messages lately and she normally messages frequently. Let us know you’re ok, Ade. Chell x
Adele posted on a link of mine at 12.17 today.
Jen☆
Hi, I was wondering the same.
If you look on her profile user posts it shows the last as 17/05 at 22.00 ISH. Can’t see the one day at time mentioned. Sorry.
Adele is usually a prolific and caring poster though obviously in deep distress herself.
Sending love to you Adele if you see this.
Xx
Fir sone unknown reason, I cant locate those posts now, but i shall look again. I have seen later posts but not as late as today. ☆ shall keep you posted
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I just want to know she’s ok- like you say, Sadone, Adele is very caring but in deep distress. Adele - let us know you’re okay. There are a lot of us who you’ve supported and care about you. Chell x
Hi Jen, did you know if you click on the username of poster (only if logged in) it brings up profile and list of all that users posts. That’s where I saw adeles last one was 17/05 at 22.03.
It’s quite useful if you want to look back at something.
Hope your day has been a little easier to get through than anticipated.
Raise another glass tonight in fond and loving memory of your dear husband. We can only hope the second year might becomea little easier to navigate than the first.
Xx
Hi Jen, did you know if you click on the username of poster (only if logged in) it brings up profile and list of all that users posts. That’s where I saw adeles last one was 17/05 at 22.03.
It’s quite useful if you want to look back at something.
Hope your day has been a little easier to get through than anticipated.
Raise another glass tonight in fond and loving memory of your dear husband. We can only hope the second year might becomea little easier to navigate than the first.
Xx
I was worried also as we are in touch every day. Yesterday I received nothing and didn’t notice any posts from her. I sent her a message early this morning. I told her I was worried about her and would she please get in touch. I let her know I was going out for the rest of the day but I have just come on and there is nothing. Haven’t received anything since Friday night.
Please Adele let one of us know that you are alright. We are all worried about you.
Love Pat xxx
I’ve sent her a message as well. Let’s hope all is well.
I’ve just sent her another message and just in case her equipment has broken down I have sent my telephone number and told her to ring me day or night.
Pat xx
Thank you, been eventful, I took our son and daughter for lunch after visiting the chapel and remembrance room. Ooenrf a bottle of champagne to honour Alan’s memory. Broke down in the chapel, took me a good half hour to brace myself to step outside. Snuggled up at Honda now with Ada and finishing off the bottld of the Mumm champagne Alan bought and always bought me. Shed tears to fill a multitude of buckets, still filling them as I talk to him even now. Sad thing is, three of his friends gave acknowledged his anniversary and one of my sisters has. Not one single member of his family have, that hurts me beyond any comprehension. Made me even more determined to distance myself from them even further. Maybe one day they’ll get to learn why. But for now, I’m too busy holding myself together.
Blessings
Jen☆
Hi Jen, have been thinking about you and hope you got through what is a difficult day. Sounds about right about his family. I bet if I was to ask Brian’s family including his daughters to a get together to remember a lovely kind man, they wouldn’t even bother. I might just test them. Love to you Pat xxxx
So sad you’ve not heard from Alan’s family.
For us these dates are etched on our hearts but for others maybe they may not remember the exact date but who knows one of them might call you in the next few days.
Hope your evening passes peaceably.
Xx
Hi, she usually messages me every day, I’ve heard nothing since Friday, she did say her sister was coming for a night this weekend
I just hope she’s ok. I’ve not heard since her message Friday night either. I think I will contact Sue Ryder or I’ll find a way to see if she’s ok.
Ade - sorry for all this fuss, but we just want to know you’re safe and ok. Xx
Yes, she usually posts several times a day, I didn’t notice till tonight as I’ve been at my daughters, as she has been ill all weekend, so I’ve been looking after her and my grandaughter, hopefully she will post tonigh
Were still worried about Adele, please if anyone hears from her let us know. If you read this Adele please let someone know how you are, we care about you love so keep in touch.
Pat xxx
Hello everyone,
It’s good to hear that you are all thinking of Ade, and I’m sorry you’ve been so concerned. Just to let you know, we have heard from her over the weekend, but she was having some problems logging in. My colleague Eleanor was helping her with this yesterday and thought it was resolved, but I can see that Ade still hasn’t posted, so I will get in touch again and see if she’s still having problems.
So glad to hear she is ok, hopefully we will all hear from her later today
Thank goodness, thank you for letting us all know. It just shows the power of this forum.
I get on with my day feeling relieved.
Pat xx