My husband of 33 years died 16 days ago. Up to now I’ve been busy sorting out the funeral and his business affairs. It’s all done now so what now?
I don’t know how to live my life without him in it. He was 56, we did not plan for this.
Hello
16 days you will still be in a state of shock please just take one day at a time if this is too much an hour at a time, get through any way you can shout, cry, sob the anxiety in your tummy does ease eventually but every one is different and as I learned the more you loved the harder you grieve. It’s a cruel place to be in but we here are all experiencing your pain.
Virtual hugs 
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I’m at a similar stage - 3 weeks tomorrow and funeral hasn’t taken place yet. I am still ploughing through the paperwork. I too feel scared and alone - we were together for over 34 years from the age of 16. I don’t know how my happy life can have been torn apart so quickly. We are all here to support each other. Sending hugs